"When my husband and I decided to seek out marriage counseling, we were naturally apprehensive about starting this challenging work. But Jay quickly set our minds at ease, with his warm and friendly manner, and especially his positive attitude. He told us that he was not my advocate, nor my husband’s, but was an advocate for our marriage. That helped us see that we were not just two people with our own problems, but that we are two together, working alongside one another. Jay clearly valued our marriage, as well as us as individuals, and cheered us on with every step we took. His caring, positive, and professional attitude, his well-timed advice, and gentle guidance, were essential in strengthening our bond and helping us find joy together everyday".